first days together
adjustments will be expected, both of the new puppy and the new owner.
It is up to you to set the tone of your new relationship.
The key works to remember are love, patience, and a gentle
consistent attitude towards the beginning of discipline.
Decide now what your ground rules for the puppy will be.
Decide where he is to sleep and prepare for it.
Decide what area of the property you will take him to go to the
bathroom and then take him there ever time.
Carry him there when he is little.
Never feed from the table and he will not become an annoying
beggar. Be firm with your
children about this. Prepare
for frequent walks to accommodate his immature bladder.
He should be walked immediately after rising, after every meal,
after every nap and the last thing at night.
He is by nature clean and will try to help.
You will soon learn his signals of sniffing and circling, so
regard these and walk him if you observe these signals.
Praise, praise, praise every time he performs correctly.
Be positive in your attitude in training, never negative.
He is a baby until he is at least six months of age and more.
Scolding for mistakes is not done in the early weeks after you
bring the puppy home and remember not to scold after the fact.
He is a little baby (just like a real person) and is too little
to understand what is going on and takes a lot of learning and patience
to learn what it is you want him to do or not to do.
he will cry. Remember he is
desolate without his littermates with whom he has cuddled with for
8weeks. Prepare a cozy folded blanket in a corner or his crate for
him. A ticking clock well
out of reach or a radio will help keep him company.
Pat him, reassure him, and leave him.
The first two nights, if he cries go in to love and reassure him.
You can also keep the crate near your bed where he can hear you or smell
your fingers. Eventually he
will get the idea. Be firm
but gentle and loving. Do
not give in and take him out of the crate nor let the children do so.
With children, I would suggest having the puppy sleeping area off
limits at all times. A
housedog should have a cool but draft free location, a cozy nest that is
his alone. Fresh water
should always be provided and you can take it up at bedtime.
You should consider that
a puppy has an absolute right to chew whatever they can get at in your
absence. You must put the puppy where it cannot do any damage. Puppies
can eat kitchen cabinets, destroy furniture, chew on carpet, and damage
a wide variety of other things. Besides the destruction, the puppy may
well injure itself, even seriously.
A good solution to this is a crate. A crate is any container,
made of wire mesh or plastic that will hold the puppy comfortably with
enough room to stand and curl up and sleep, and a little extra room to
stretch out. You can also
fence off part of the house, or the kitchen or garage or build an
outside run. (You can construct a simple 4 X 4 with turkey wire in the
garage very easily.) Put
your pup in an environment it can't destroy. Puppies are too immature to
handle temptations, many not being able to handle mild temptations until
they're 6 months or older. Consider the analogy with a baby--where you
keep it in a crib, stroller, or pen if you are not holding it.
is essential to puppy-proof your home. You should think of it in the
same way as childproofing your house but be more thorough about it.
Puppies are smaller and more active than babies and have sharp teeth and
claws. Things of special concern are electric wires.
Get down on your hands and knees and consider things from this
angle. What looks enticing, what is breakable, what is sharp, etc? The
most important things are watching the puppy and, of course, crating it
or otherwise restraining it when you can't watch it.
him what is and isn't chewable. The single most effective way to do this
is by having a ready supply of chewable items on hand. When the puppy
starts to chew on an unacceptable item (be it a chair, rug, or human
hand), remove the item from the puppy's mouth with a stern,
"NO" and a tap up under the chin, and replace it with a chew
toy and praise the puppy for playing with the toy. If you are consistent
about this, the puppy will get the idea that only the things you give it
are to be chewed on! Don't stint on the praise, and keep the
"No!" to a single calm, sharp noise -- don't yell or scream
the word. There are some
products that can help make items unpalatable and thus aid in your
training. Bitter Apple and Bitter Orange impart a bitter taste to many
things without staining, etc. You should not depend on these products to
keep your puppy safe, but use them as a training aid.
and Small Children
Keep puppies and very small children apart or under close supervision.
Small children do not understand the need for keeping fingers out of
puppies' eyes or refraining from pulling painfully on their tails, etc.
And it is very hard for a toddler to keep an excited puppy from jumping
and scratching on them. Teach
your children how to approach a puppy or dog, to prevent being jumped
on. They should understand that they should put out their hands below
the pup's chin, to keep it from jumping at a hand above its head. They
should not scream or run away, as the puppy will then chase the child.
Remember kids in diapers when they run away, are one of a puppies most
fun things to chase and bite right in the diaper.
Be Surprised When...
1. Your puppy doesn't seem to pick up the idea of whining at or going to
the door to tell you it needs to go to the bathroom. Many puppies do not
begin this behavior until they are four or five months old.
Your puppy does not seem to pick its name up quickly. Sometimes it takes
several weeks before you consistently get a reaction when you say its
name. (Be careful not to use its name in a negative sense! Clap or shout
Your puppy does not seem to be particularly happy with verbal praise.
You need to pair verbal praise with physical praise for a few months
before your puppy understands and appreciates verbal praise.
4. Your puppy
falls asleep in the middle of some other activity. Puppies need lots of
sleep but since they are easily distracted, they sometimes forget to go
to sleep and so will fall asleep at bizarre times: while eating, or even
Your puppy twitches while sleeping. This indicates healthy neural
development. Twitching will be most pronounced for the first few months
of the puppy's life, and slowly diminish thereafter. There are many
adult dogs that continue some twitching. Expect muffled woofs and
snuffling noises, too.
Your puppy hiccups. Many puppies hiccup. The only thing to do is wait
for them to pass. Don't worry about it.
They will out grow it.